Alisandra/Disclaimer
Warning: Dark Themes Ahead. Alisandra is, in a lot of ways, a genuinely pleasant, friendly, and agreeable sort of character. She is not going to threaten to cut your throat, murder your children or ruin your life -- not that the threats would be in any way convincing even if she did. She won't start a fistfight with you if she doesn't like the way you dress. She'll probably apologize if you don't like the way she dresses. She's nice. She's helpful. She's a good person.
That doesn't mean that roleplay with her will always be pleasant, friendly, and agreeable. There are some dark elements in her background and her personality, and some of those elements may (probably 'will') come out in play. Some of those elements may be upsetting to people who've dealt with similar issues in real life. If you're one of those people, you should always feel free to tell me that something's bothering you, and I will work with you to arrange to extricate your character from the situation and avoid repetition.
About Risk. I have Alisandra set as a Risk 1 character. This is not because I don't want bad things to happen to her -- if you want to take some action that affects her, temporarily or permanently, then go ahead and do it and I will do my best to roll with whatever it is you come up with. All I ask is this: make it fun for me, too. Give me a reason to want to play it out, rather than just feeling obligated to. Treat me like a collaborator rather than a competitor, and I will cheerfully go along with almost anything you can dream up.